February 17, 2011

Wishful Thinking

My brother met this girl from Hungary. They met on a pen-pal website. They started talking through skype for a couple months. Then one day, as a complete surprise to my brother she came to America. Yeah, just like that movie except: she was white, had no money, was not royalty, and can't get a job. Okay, so nothing like the film. I just really like that movie.  She was supposed to go home the 1st of this month, but due to weather, her plane got delayed until April something. I'm not really sure how that works, but anyhow. She's staying. My theory all along was, she wants to get married, better yet, have a baby.

I am completely opposed to young people procreating and or getting married. Hasn't previous failed attempts at such things taught young people anything? Or are they just too naive and think, "it's different with us, we're not like the other people." Well, news flash you are. I don't want to be the big bitch who tells all the young people, "It will never work, you'll end up alone.." But, the chances of divorce when marrying under 24 is close to 50%, it drops to 24% if you wait till your over 24. Those extra years help to define your sense of self, which is really important.

Anyways, according to my his fb page, he is engaged. I've expressed my feelings about marriage to him, personally. Hopefully, he takes it into consideration. And, of course, I wish them the best. 

Oh, and theres this little video. Yeah, Tyra is kinda cray cray. But, so is this girl. I mean, what is wrong with kids these days??

P.S. Let it be known, that I love and care about my family. My brother is very important to me, I've done a lot for him over the years. It's not that I don't care about him or support him, it's that I want the best for him. The best, could be this girl, I'm not doubting that. I'm doubting the route that they're taking towards their future. It's sad, when people look at things and take them from the wrong context, and add a twist to it. This isn't a message of hate.


Anonymous said...

I think my jaw was on the floor during that entire video. I'm posting it to facebook. I cannot believe that. Unfathomable.

Tinapunk said...

Haha, yeah, I saw the post of Facebook. Yeah, the video just made me a deer in headlights. It's crazy how young people get these twisted ideas of marriage and babies in their heads.

Violet said...

WOW i dont understand how her flight is delayed for two months. this is all so crazy hopefully he doesnt give in to marriage or kids for that matte

Vi from Cali

Tinapunk said...

Thanks, Vi. Hopefully, she doesn't get pregnant.